Often women do not feel attractive once they are pregnant, and stop making efforts to look fabulous and attractive. It is then that the cheating normally begins not because they cant be attractive but because they simply stopped trying to, allowing an entry points for the opportunist waiting for you to slip and move onto your man. as much as men have a responsibility of staying faithful and loyal to their partners women also have the responsibility to keep their men interested and that is maintaining confidence, high self-esteem,sexy and attractive that way men are unlikely to fall into temptations and traps of opportunistic women.
Think sex can’t be fun now that you’re pregnant? Think again! normal, healthy pregnancies, sex isn’t just safe but it’s often very fun as you have something you dont have before, THE BUMP, well and a few more such as mood swings but the bump is very important, you now have to start being creative in a way u never had to, just to cater for it
Of course, sexuality in the first trimester can be as dusty as the Sahara desert in dry season. Between morning sickness and the associated fatigue, it’s probably the last thing you ll have on your mind. Now here are some of those good things that come with pregnancy
Fabulous Increased Flexibility
Get ready for new abilities with your joints! Even if you weren’t the most flexible person before, during pregnancy, your body naturally produces a hormone that essentially makes you be able to stretch more and generally loosens up your body parts. It’s intended to make you flexible for delivery but it has a pleasant side effect for intercourse.
Body change Mayhem!
The body undergoes so many changes during pregnancy. Of course, you have this new belly bump. But that isn’t the only part of your body to change after pregnancy. Your breasts are likely to balloon to sizes that would make even the randiest teenager blush a crimson red. Your hips widen a bit, giving you exciting new curves and that can be very exciting for your man.
“[My husband] loved the new features that came with my pregnant body and could not keep his hands off me” said Thandeka Moalosi.
(P.S. your other lady parts are also likely to feel different, since your vagina undergoes major changes during pregnancy. Among those changes: increased sensitivity, which can mean lots of good things for you … and, yes, we mean lots!)
Finding new positions
The changing shape of your body can make your usual go-to positions not so easy to do. But fear not. With all the flexibility and the changing shape of your body, it’s an open call to find new and exciting positions to liven up your sex life. Finding those new positions can be a wildly fun experience in of itself too. “It was also interesting finding new positions, which was very necessary after a while,” says Orateng.
No more conception stress
Before getting pregnant chances are you often used contraception; pills, condoms etc, well now you just earned a free pass, Your man will worship you for this. Whatever the case, pregnancy sex is free from all of that. One mom, Charmaine De Clerk, said that “not worrying about getting pregnant,” was the best part of pregnancy sex for her and my man enjoyed giving it to me “flesh to flesh” NB; Sexually Transmitted infections can still be transmitted without a condom, Make sure to be safe
The Common Excuses
“I’ always feel tired.”
Fatigue is a classic symptom of early pregnancy and one that can quickly affect your sex life, After all, who would wanna be involved in a marathon when they already feel they just finished one a second ago. Take enough rest by reducing(not stopping completely) your normal workload. If you still don’t have the energy for intercourse, use this time as an opportunity to explore other activities that give you pleasure, whether that’s massaging, kissing, or oral sex.
“I feel unattractive.”
For many women, it’s hard to think they still got it, sexy and attractive which is not true. Chances are just like over 80% of pregnant women out there you are being your worst critic.Often men have admitted to loving the new features that come with pregnancy. And nothing changed about you, you still yourself your man will like you no matter what, not to mention being preg does not mean not attractive Try to focus on your best assets. If you’ve got great legs, show them off with skinny jeans and hide your bigger behind with a tunic. Or focus on your hair, it’s most likely never looked better. Of course, taking care of you on the inside, through exercise and nutrition, also boosts self-esteem. And why not try a positive attitude on for size?
“I’m afraid sex will harm the baby.”
Carrying a little living being inside of you can make it tempting to slap on a “Handle With Care” label before lovemaking. However experts agree that getting frisky is perfectly safe and actually good for the body. “In a normal, healthy pregnancy, there’s no risk to having intercourse,” says Elisabeth Aron, M.D., an ob-gyn and author of Pregnancy Do’s and Don’ts. “Miscarriages aren’t provoked by sex,” says Dr. Harms.
Relaxing (and improvising!) are key to successful lovemaking during pregnancy, especially in the third trimester when you have an out-to-there belly. During this stage, Dr. Fulbright recommends the side-by-side position or woman on top, which places no pressure on the abdomen.
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